Posted by: expated | June 5, 2007

On Being Expated in Dubai and Such

I am sure that my fellow expats have expressed their sincere, heartfelt feelings about being expated and dealing with such issues like..

Loneliness, aloneness, alienation, longing and not belonging..

Me? I needn’t deal with such issues since I have very fertile relatives scattered across the 7 blissful Emirates. Here is a brief excerpt from one of those visits that I look forward to as much as I dread. A one-hour hike to a distant Emirate during weekends and this is what takes place: 

Fatherly Figure: What did you study?
Me: Blah blah
(Brief silence)
Fatherly Figure: Do you work with computers?
Me: Yeah sometimes I find myself..
Fatherly Figure (cuts you off): Ok my DVD player is not working, can you take a look at it?
Sami (aka the voice inside my head): Hell, no! What you want to make up for the money you paid for this lunch? Screw you!
Me: Sure!

A short inspection later yields that the assumed DVD player isn’t working because it clearly mentions that it is actually a VCD player on the top.
 
During lunch. People stuffing their faces with all kinds of steaming dishes, one of which is the obligatory, national food of Mansaf. A burp or fart is let loose every once in a while followed by an embarrassed chuckle. 

Motherly Figure: Eat! Eat! Fatherly Figure tell him to eat!
Fatherly Figure: I won’t tell him to eat woman, he’s a man he knows how much he wants to eat
You faintly smile; you are getting the notion that such things as your personal pride and self-esteem do not exist on this table

[2 bowls of rice and 3 chickens and a cup of Pepsi later ..]
Motherly Figure: Did you try the lamb?
Me: Thank you, ma’am, I’ve had enough..
Motherly Figure throws 2 spoonfuls of rice in your plate
Motherly Figure: Daughter made it herself!
Enter Daughter who has recently dropped off college. Her parents are a little concerned about those after-midnight calls to her unseen-yet, bestest friend Tamara Her hips are swaying wildly like a Pussycat Doll as she walks in.. 
Me(to Sami): Is it normal to walk like that?
Sami: Hell, no! It’s the mating call, my friend..
Me: Shit!
Motherly Figure: Daughter is a very good cook. She can hold her breath for 10 minutes and can stand on her head too. 
Me: Hmmm, interesting..
Motherly Figure: What? You don’t believe me? Huda stand on your head!
Me: No, no I believe you really..there is no need..
Huda proceeds to do as she is instructed. At least it’s not only your pride that doesn’t exist here.

Me: Wow that is impressive!
For a second, you visualize your head-standing children waiting for you after you come from work.
Head-Standing Children: Abab, Abab!
Me: It’s BABA you motherfucking idiots! 
Sami: I wonder how we can employ that head-standing thing in a bedroom.
Me: Shut up!
Me (wondering): Mmmmmmm! 

You shake that lucid image off. A little too literally.
Motherly Figure: Are you ok? Is the food too salty? Do you want water?
Me: No, no, I’m fine..
Grabs bottle of Coke and pours a new fizzing glass. 
God, I hate weekends. Well, at least the food is good.  


Responses

  1. “Sami: Hell, no! It’s the mating call, my friend..” hahahahahahaha…ta7sheesh…

    “Head-Standing Children: Abab, Abab!” hahahaha…ta7sheesh..

    “Sami: I wonder how we can employ that head-standing thing in a bedroom.” hahaha…ok you get the picture ..hehehe

    Expated, I think they drug the food at your relatives’ house…did you have hash(eesh) brownies for dessert .. hehehehe

  2. Oh man thank God I don’t have relatives here in Dubai then! LoL

  3. Relatives abroad! Please don’t get me started! They think they have a duty to take care of you, and in your case, get you to marry their daughter!

    And if you don’t oblige, you’re an introvert, unsociable, ungrateful bastard! lol!

  4. looooooooooooooooool @ your relatives… walla I feel sorry for you, but cool down, it looks like everybody has relatives who are just like yours..
    cheeers .. hehehe😀

  5. @7f, no actually I come naturally high, consumption of substances like jameed, chocolates, Faith Hill and Tamer Hosni are know to gauge my “highness”..
    @KJ, it’s not my relatives in Dubai that I worry about, those are actually the ones I need to beg to hang out with and need to book an opening to go out with them a month in advance, the ones that scare me are those in distant Emirates like *gulp* il-Ain, Sharja etc.
    @Who-Sane it’s nice to know I’m not the only one out there suffering from this problem, seriously it’s such a relief..Misery loves company..hehe
    @Secratea, lol am cool.. don’t worry about me, I have made my peace with the fact that you can pick your friends, but you can’t pick your relatives🙂


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